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The pain of our many losses from the pandemic
It is no surprise that many therapists are experiencing rising numbers of enquiries at the moment, or that clients are in increasing...
Fe Robinson
Jan 30, 20212 min read


Asking for what you need in relationship
We each come to our intimate couples relationship with our own patterns, formed from our past experiences, particularly our experiences...
Fe Robinson
Jan 30, 20212 min read


Coping when your relationship ends
The end of a relationship is difficult. However it comes about. You suddenly move from being part of a couple, to being single. Old...
Fe Robinson
Jan 15, 20213 min read


Wanting to feel sure of someone?
Piglet sidled up to Pooh from behind. "Pooh!" he whispered. "Yes, Piglet?" "Nothing," said Piglet, taking Pooh's paw. "I just wanted to...
Fe Robinson
Jan 15, 20212 min read


Am I normal?
This is a question I often hear in psychotherapy sessions, sometimes many times in a week. This wondering about our ordinariness or...
Fe Robinson
Jan 3, 20213 min read


Introduction to Couples Counselling
Couples Counselling can be effective, and make a big difference to intimate relationships. Here’s an introduction to what it is (and...
Fe Robinson
Jan 3, 20219 min read


National Grief Awareness Week
Today marks the start of National Grief Awareness Week. This year it is perhaps more poignant than ever, as we collectively remember...
Fe Robinson
Dec 2, 20201 min read


World Kindness Day
So why kindness? In these difficult times it’s not hard to find stories of people helping each other, it’s happening in every village...
Fe Robinson
Nov 13, 20202 min read


Are you speaking freely in your relationship?
In relationships, communication is often an issue. It is very common for couples to draw away from having uncomfortable conversations. ...
Fe Robinson
Nov 6, 20202 min read


We can't do this alone
I've had an interesting few weeks being reminded of how inter-dependent people are. I moved house. Depending on your previous moving...
Fe Robinson
Oct 24, 20202 min read


Are you editing yourself?
In therapeutic work, therapists have the privilege of working with people over a period of time, and potentially of coming to know their...
Fe Robinson
Oct 24, 20202 min read


An observer changes the system, just by being there
Have you ever noticed that when you show someone else around your home or office, you see it differently? Or when you take someone for...
Fe Robinson
Sep 12, 20201 min read


If you want to belong, then accept yourself
“Because true belonging only happens when we present our authentic, imperfect selves to the world, our sense of belonging can never be...
Fe Robinson
Aug 17, 20202 min read


Getting to know yourself and those you love in new ways
The coronavirus pandemic has impacted relationships deeply. Our circumstances are all different, both in the generalities that impact us...
Fe Robinson
Aug 8, 20202 min read


Finding new perspectives when you don't agree
I received a moving email from Esther Perel this week, reflecting on the many and varied ways that relationships have been impacted by...
Fe Robinson
Aug 8, 20202 min read


Grief is love with nowhere to go
I was reminded of this beautiful phrase recently and it touched me deeply. We grieve that which we have loved. The bigger the grief,...
Fe Robinson
Jun 28, 20201 min read


Why vulnerability is a good thing
“Vulnerability is the birthplace of love, belonging, joy, courage, empathy, and creativity. It is the source of hope, empathy,...
Fe Robinson
Jun 20, 20202 min read


We are hard-wired to connect
“Connection is why we are here. We are hard-wired to connect with others, it’s what gives purpose and meaning to our lives, and without...
Fe Robinson
Jun 13, 20202 min read


Finding balance in love
“Balance is not letting anyone else love you less than you love yourself.” In this second article this week about balance and...
Fe Robinson
May 17, 20202 min read


Losing balance in love as a part of having balance in life
I guess most people will be familiar with the heady sensations of the early days of an affair of the heart. That time when our lover...
Fe Robinson
May 17, 20203 min read
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